A big problem with modern dating is people are really good at spotting flaws in others.. but utterly terrible at spotting flaws in themselves or putting the work into fixing them. So people are red-flagging each other while ignoring their own. We read too many articles about ‘red flags to look out for’ and not enough ‘how to do the difficult thing and improve ourselves’
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A big problem with modern dating is people are really good at spotting flaws in others.. but utterly terrible at spotting flaws in themselves or putting the work into fixing them. So people are red-flagging each other while ignoring their own. We read too many articles about ‘red flags to look out for’ and not enough ‘how to do the difficult thing and improve ourselves’