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I think the message here is, she wasn’t looking for him to solve the problem for her. She was just venting her frustration. He should have just made a joke or told her she is beautiful and she would have been much happier.
“Stop trying to be helpful, *asshole!*”
Jean stretcher.
***** sometimes.
Hit the bricks if you’re an emotional leech.
A conversation I had with my wife a few days ago.
You don’t have to put up with anyone’s insecurities if you live life according to Reddit comments.
At the first sign of trouble, you break things off, change your number, disown your family, forsake your friends, renounce your citizenship, and go live on a desert island.
This is the way.
People don’t say “I feel like a sausage in these jeans” because they’re too dumb to realize that bigger jeans or a smaller body would fix it, they say it because they feel bad and are turning to you for cheering up.
Loving the people in this thread trying to diagnose the marital problems of two cartoon characters in a webcomic
My wife: “STOP FEEDING ME”
I spend my entire day listening to peoples problems with the implication that I will be taking some responsibility to fix it. This kind of “expression of problem” -> “finding and implementing the solution” , is pretty much how I live my life
It’s actually different for me to have to listen to someone and acclimatise to not wanting to immediately solve their problems. It’s almost a bit weird because it doesn’t happen anywhere else in my life.
At no point does my boss come up to me with a problem “just to vent”. If he expresses a problem to me, then it almost automatically implies I will have a hand in solving it. It’s not something I usually have to clarify with them.
“Hey these reports don’t seem to be working and it’s frustrating to me”
“Oh I’m sorry you feel that way, must be really hard going through that man”
Is not usually how the conversation is gonna go
It’s also not “normal” conversation to me despite the fact everyone is saying we should be normalising it
Learning how to say “hey baby at least you’re my little sausage” instead of “lose weight, then” was a real step in learning for me. Shame nobody is willing to give me the time to learn it because I sure had to learn that one fast
A typical case of “Do you want me to solve your problem or do you just want to talk about it?”
It’s not about the nail.
As a husband, I can attest that the only correct answer in this situation is …
>”oh sorry babe, I washed those in the last batch of laundry and I must have accidentally shrunk them. Do you want to swing by the mall and by yourself a new pair?”
I’m tired of this trope
I cannot oblige when people fish for compliments. If you ask me *do these jeans make me look fat* the answer is yes. Always. Even if you are tiny.
ive been personally attacked by this
I’m a troubleshooter. People present me with problems, I come up with potential solutions.
This does not work at home.
I love her angry face!
“Fine, then lose weight”
“Fuck you!”
“That’s a great way to lose weight”
man in the last panel: You see what i’m dealing with here?
Convincing my gf to simply go up a size in jeans was like pulling teeth. Not because we disagreed that the ones she was trying on were too tight. Simply because she refused to accept that she was one size up. I told her the number doesn’t matter and that she’d look and feel better in the bigger size. She tried them on and apologized. lol
Well, that’s what happens when you’re in a relationship with a wiener.
It’s not our fault if we love sausages.
When a girls thighs rub together and wear holes in her jeans it instantly makes her more attractive to me.
I have that same maroon shirt.
Duuuuh, why she say thing if she no want me to tell her how to fix? Me tell everyone how to fix all thing real good.
That looks like a dude ready to move on
I like sausage
Duuuuh, why she say problem when solution so simple anyone knows it? If fat, get skinny, if sad, get happy.
She must already know solution, so simple, so why she say????!??!
Though the Chud may approach infinitely closer to understanding basic tenets of humanity, they may never intersect this line of basic social grace.