A lot of people feel this way, but it’s important to remember that not everyone does.
As an extrovert, I find it a little painful when people cancel plans on me, especially last minute. Here was this opportunity for me to refill my social cup and connect with someone and now that’s gone. It would be similar to an introvert if you had plans to go home and sit with a cup of tea and your favorite show but someone threw you a surprise party at your house. Not that you necessarily hate them for doing that or anything, but you were really looking forward to that time to be fully “charged” and now that’s gone. Now you are going to have to find another way to get that time that you need.
It’s doubly hurtful nowadays that there is this idea that everyone likes cancelled plans. Because not only do I more frequently get calls from friends cancelling at the last minute, but they expect me to be relieved by it.
Is that a cat or a whole roast chicken?
In the words of John Mulaney, “In terms of instant relief, cancelling plans is like heroin.”
Lay-Z
If he’s eating bag of chips in on the coutch at ~35 to 40 years old, he can’t be slim like that.
A lot of people feel this way, but it’s important to remember that not everyone does.
As an extrovert, I find it a little painful when people cancel plans on me, especially last minute. Here was this opportunity for me to refill my social cup and connect with someone and now that’s gone. It would be similar to an introvert if you had plans to go home and sit with a cup of tea and your favorite show but someone threw you a surprise party at your house. Not that you necessarily hate them for doing that or anything, but you were really looking forward to that time to be fully “charged” and now that’s gone. Now you are going to have to find another way to get that time that you need.
It’s doubly hurtful nowadays that there is this idea that everyone likes cancelled plans. Because not only do I more frequently get calls from friends cancelling at the last minute, but they expect me to be relieved by it.
When Michael Bolton calls, and you still don’t get out of bed, you are truly Lay-Z
when your extrovert friend tells you a introvert they can’t hang out.
Me but with a joint.
At 37, this is how 95% of the meet ups go
Damn. That LayZ and Ken&Jerry sure looks good.
Been on both ends of that call.
JOMO : the joy of missing out!
The cat isn’t lying on his legs? What reason should he even have to stay at home.
Idk, I’ve been stood up and ghosted more than I’ve gone out
Something is wrong with me